(Evaluation of Progress-}
{2003-02-25} {6:54 p.m.}
Mehhh...
1. What problem(s) brought this case to the attention of the Department?
This case was brought to the attention of the Department after it was discovered that the Carlisle children were victims of sexual abuse and exploitation by the babysister, ie:........
2. Why does the family or child currently need DCFS services?
The family needs services to address sexual abuse, community resources and parenting.
3. Summarize significant developements/events in the case since the last plan.
Since the last case plan the family continues to recieve services through: Samantha, Heather and Jamie Carlisle. All continue to recieve sexual abuse treatment through SATP and are reported to be doing well. Linda Carlisle continues to recieve mental health services through Bridgeway Mental Health for both therapy and medication. Ms. Carlisle continues to have issues with regards to parenting and using her mental illness and medications as excuses for poor parenting. Ms. Carlisle is not getting her children off to school, causing problems with truancy and is not maintaining the home and the basic living skills such as preparing meals for the children. Ms. Carlisle also has innappropiate expectations of her children.
That's 1....
"Linda continues to struggle with parenting issues, this worker has recieved several complaints regarding Ms. Carlisle's lack to follow through in areas of consistent parenting. The children have reported that Ms.Carlisle does not regularly prepapre meals, is failing to get children up for school and does not consistently set boundaries and consequences. Ms. Carlsile admits herself that she yells excessively and does not know what to do with the children as they will not listen to her. This worker also has concerns about Ms. Carlisle's expectations of the children and her leaving Samantha in charge of the children too frequently"
That's 2....
"Although Ms. Carlisle has attended a pyschiatric evaluation and is curretnly recieving individual therapy through Bridgeway Mental Health, she has not followed all reccommendations of her pyschiatrist by taking her medications as prescribed. Ms. Carlisle is inconsistent in taking her medications according to the orders and often takes herself off of the medications or adjusts the time of day she takes them without consulting the psychiatrist"
That's 3.....
Now as far as I'm concerned they can all kiss my big red rosey behind.
They do not help me; all they do is bring me down. I'm sick of all of it.
I can't take it anymore.
How much does a person have to kiss butt to be recognized as a good parent?
It's not as easy as they try and make it sound.
All I heard yesterday was, "I don't want to hear anymore of how you can't do this or that. I want to hear how you can do this and that; because you can."
Bitches! What the fuck do they know? They aren't here, they aren't me! They don't have my emotions, my weaknesses, my fears, or my doubts. How can they jus sit there and judge? I hate them all...I wish they would die...
**sighs**
Yeah, I was reading the service packet again.
Everything marked "unsatisfactory"
Damn them for damning me.
I just wanna die...
it's just like Cyndi said.....
"It's better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you are not"
She's soo right. Wise words of a very intelligent woman... thanks Cyndi for being here for me.
I owe you alot and we've only just begun to get to know one another. You understand me more than anyone I know thus far
... you're tops in my book doll.**
Well, I must go ..cooking dinner..omg! See that?!! hahaha losers!.. don't think I do anything. Henh.. they can kiss my royal behind! And, it's big enough too... there's plenty for everyone
-The Best Yet-