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(Love or infatuation?}
{2003-02-08} {2:13 a.m.}
Infatuation is a fleeting disire-one sets of glad calling to another,it is marked by a feeling of insecurity.You are excited & eager but not genuinely happy,there are no nagging doubts,unanswered questions little bits & pieces about the realtionship that you would jus as soon not examine too closely,it might spoil the dream.
Love is friendship that has caught on fire, it takes roots & grows,one day at a time it is quiet understanding & mature,acceptance of imperfection.It gives u strength & grows beyond your beloved.You are warmed by his presences, even when he is away ...miles do not sprate u; but near or far you know he is yours & u cant wait.
Infatuation says, "We must get married,right away;I cant risk to lose u"
Love says, "Be patient don't panic, plan your future with confidence"
Infatuation has a element of sexual excitment...whenever you are together you hope it will end in intamcy.
...love is not based on sex its maturation of friendship that makes the sex so much sweeter.You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confindence,when he's away you wonder if he is being faithful,sometimes even check.
Love means truth,you are calm, secure & unthreatened ...he feels ur trust & it makes him even more trustworthy.
Infataution might lead to you to do things you would regret, but love never stears you in the wrong direction.Love is elevating, it lifes you up,it makes u look up, and it makes u better then you were before.
-Fizzled-